Hard core reality
settles into your bones and joints the day after the transition day of your
loved one….one year later. There are no
words to describe how an entire year has gone by and you are faced with the
empty seat at the table, still wanting and needing the smile and laughter that is unique to your loved one, the space that once held your beloved; is just that space, empty space.
I had my own personal
memorial day with my son. I did this
alone; as I have many milestones over the past year. My daughter and son (in-law) came by today to
honor Jeremy with me and it made all the difference in the world and put some
healing in these bones and joints. I
felt 100 years old when I woke up this morning and was in total awe that I
survived another day without my precious son.
Well, I did, I have and I will continue going forth on my spiritual journey. His beloved sister and brothers and dad made it through another life altering day as survivors. The sorrow is too deep to
comprehend; we are all in sync that will we wish nothing but to bring
honor to my son; Ssgt. Jeremy D. Smith.
Our lives have
stopped one year ago yesterday; we have not healed from the
devastation of the absence of his essence that he brought into our lives. Yet we do move forward in this devastating
tragedy; one tiny little step at a time; although it sounds paradoxical, it is
complicated, confusing and totally painful spirit, soul and body.
As a family, we want
to honor him, keep his memory alive and all at the same time let him fly free
as a bird. For he is loved deeply,
purely and unconditionally. We
understand why he chose to go this last tour for the young men he died
for and battled with.
With that said we
respect his choice and love him deeper and more each day; because his unselfish
act of giving his life for his country and his men made him an angel and a man’s
man all wrapped into one soul.
I love you son and
miss you and feel the empty place on the earth plane where you once were. However; I do feel you in spirit and still
hear you in spirit and know you are our guardian angel.
It is still painful,
although your immediate family has grown spiritually because of you. We are in anticipation as to where you will
guide and lead us over this next year.
Thank you for watching over us and for the choices you have made to confirm that you live on in another dimension and that you are a breath away when we need you.
Thank you for watching over us and for the choices you have made to confirm that you live on in another dimension and that you are a breath away when we need you.
I love and respect
you so very much son, as a man, as a brave Marine. Thank you for your sacrifice and thank you
for all the blessings you bestow on us and for bringing honor and pride to our
family.
I wish to keep my
spiritual portals open at all times. I
want to continue learning from my Source and become one with the Universal Mind
and Spirit; knowing that thoughts do become things and that the purity of life
and energy springs forth from the inner core; our soul level, our Source. I desire to be connected to all things with
the Universal Love of God and be a champion for Jeremy. I pray that I become one With the Universal
Mind of God and when I am united with my son I will come through as a champion and
God will say to me that he knew the hardship and the heartache, but job well
done.
I know to accomplish
this I must breathe, drink plenty of water and eat more natural foods, not let
my mind and thoughts control me and let my Spirit from my soul level be my
guide, my teacher and mentor. I know I
must be in a spirit of love, kindness and acceptance and to always remember to respect everyone’s journey
and the path they are travelling.
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